I have no words to draw any closure to what my sister threatened to do today--walk away from Tien and me and my parents. Doesn't she realize that in doing so, she is going to break the heart of a little three year old boy who used to call her Daddy? Doesn't she know she is going to rip apart our Mother's heart because she has memories of Michele taking Brandon away from them numerous times. Plus my Mom has memories of having to leave her own children, and she is forever scarred how her child looked at her when she had to walk away when he was just a little kid. She says she is doing it because she will have a better life. If that is what she believes, then let her believe that. She has to take into account what she is doing affects far more people than just herself. It affects her son Brandon who is in Kindergarten. He has all ready experienced the trauma of losing his father, even for the best, and his growing curious mind wonders why his Daddy isn't around. Is it fair to let this happen? I know God's will is going to happen one way or another. I am not going to beg her to stay. I am not going to let her walk away and then come back into his life. My son's Auntie Chele isn't replaceable. What an emotional loss on so many levels!
Sunday, October 25, 2009
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